Highs and Lows

Chris left for Yuma, AZ for training days after Quinn started school. He was there about 2 months and enjoying all of our food favorites in his spare time.

I went through a rough patch for the first time he's been away in his entire career. It certainly didn't help that Finley went through some major regressions in sleep and potty training. The first week Chris was gone, we were basically at the first week of potty training again. Remember me posting about how great Finley did and how quickly he was trained? All of that celebration went out the window as I was wiping smeared poop out of the grout of the 1" bathroom tiles....and out of Captain America masks. Not to mentioned the pee all the time, every time. There is only so much patience for cleaning up bodily fluids so many months after the kid goes like a pro consistently. Finley was impossible to put to bed, coming out 3-4 times after tucking him in and also decided those two months would be a great time to give up naps. Added to the heap were several sicknesses to include Impetigo and Hand Foot Mouth Disease. Quinn was exceptionally sassy and Rylan exceptionally sensitive and difficult. Rylan ripped a shelf off the wall accidentally (like my curtain rods in CA)  and about one million beads shot across the entire living room. I was easily depressed, not wanting to leave the house because I had nothing left to give. I had reached a breaking point after several weeks and then got a grip again. I signed Finley up for a couple days a week of hourly care so I could have a break and run errands by myself. It only took the 3rd kid to embrace the need for help.

Once October came, Fall decorations and the sight of pumpkins really cheered me up. I replaced my flower pots with Fall arrangements and Chris went to Marshalls and Michaels FaceTime shopping with me so I could get some Fall garlands and spruce up our home a bit for Fall. I decided to do a daily Halloween craft after school with the kids to help break up the frustration of after school demands and energy bursts and that helped me reconnect with the kids and not rely on TV to pass the time until bedtime. Chris got home days before Halloween and at last our lives were back to normal and the potty, sleep, and behavior issues dissolved within a week of him being back home.